Have you ever photographed a wedding as the main tog ?.
If the answer is no then you dont have a clue.
There are many that have shot a wedding as the main photographer and still don't have a clue !
Now I am no expert, I have done a grand total of 2 Weddings now but did research the subject on here aswell as the internet and by buying books, books that I will cherish as they are very good.
Both my B&G's have been told about the traditional way to stand but you know, I get them to stand how they feel comfortable, or not even mention it on the day as they will stand how they feel natural, at my first Wedding I noticed the groom wratching around with his fingers inside his collar, he never wears a shirt and it was paining him, a quick word with the bride and the tie was off and the top button undone, one happy Groom and he was Mr Natural again !
Now, right or wrong in breaking with tradition, its progress and how in lengthy discussions with the B&G they have wanted their Weddings to be shot - it works for me and has seemingly paid off with the offers of work I am getting, B&G's that have seen my work, via private galleries from the couples I have shot, I am happy for that, you know what, not one of them has yet asked what I charge or what they get, just they want me to do it - happy, damn right I am !
I have thought about offering to do some freebie 2nd shooting but now I think balls to it, I am getting there the people that are important like my work, that is the B&G !
I appreciate that many photographers have made a living out of shooting Weddings for many years and that is great, we can learn alot from you, some of these are putting their experiences into book form so that people like me can enter the industry, Annabel Williams, Damien Lovegrove, they are diversifying and make people like me aspire to the work they produce, I pick up snippets from all over the place, from those snippets comes my style I guess, I look to the states alot for inspiration - as the world gets smaller the bride and groom will be searching the net and will be seeing the same images and want them re-producing at their own special day.
I will continue to look for inspiration and my eyes are always open for new projects, challenges, monitor and evaluate what I do and keep moving forward, traditional values are being lost everywhere, some bad, some good, I will be succesful and you know what, a kid like George should damn well be encouraged, he really shows his maturity on this thread and I for one wish him all the best for the future.
George is asking for help, this is a forum that could possibly help him become a success and not a drug dealer, he should bloody well be applauded.
Note to George - I will stick my neck out and if no dates collide I will send you some CF cards down for the Wedding, obviously I do want them back but if it helps I would be happy to help out.